Attachment

Most of the people remain tangled in the attachments. They feel attached to somebody, lose a major part of their focus and life and after sometime gets belittle by the same person they were attached to. Attachment becomes a habit and later on it feels like fun, further it becomes a load and then that person thinks you are stupid, he doesn't think you are capable of doing anything. In one of my friend's case, to get to know her friends, she became more open and tried to amuse and impress them.. They were flattered by her but as soon as she was not putting everyday efforts because she doesn't get any equal response from them, only it was her who was putting all efforts to be candid with them.
Now, the time has come when her friends thought she is used to, it's her everyday's to speak about and entertain them. They started ignoring her and here she gave them a big part of her focus, energy and time but they were not appreciating or in sense, I say was not worth it. And at last, she was a loser, loser of time, energy and most importantly focus which she could give to her career. Her time was wasted but not yours, learn from her mistake and change your story because in the end not anyone but you have to live with yourself. 

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